How to stop unwanted influence by others

It is so easy when you are at beginner level of something to feel that the people who have been doing it for five or ten years are just super human and they have got something special that you don’t have you know you feel like you are trying so hard to compete because, you are comparing yourself with them.

Comparing yourself to all other people who are out there doing their own work just put that aside, just kind of wash away those comparisons and just focus on yourself.

I truly believe that we have all the answers that we need for our own life journey deep down somewhere within ourselves. Everybody is own their own journey so to compare yourself with what someone else has going on is really damaging yourself and its not going to be effective it’s not going to make you feel great.

We all have our own strengths, stick to what you really good at, what you are confident in and really build upon those skills because there is no one way to be successful.

For example: think of having yourself be your cheerleader in your own mind it’s kind of fun picture your future self-create. Create a little avatar of what future care you will look like, think you are smart and you are capable of doing everything own your own.

Instead of always rushing out to look at what other people think you should do and ask for advice sometimes. Trusting google and trusting other people more than you are trusting your own inner voice, figure out the solutions to the problems in your life meditate on that.

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